Welcome to women’s club

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Their desires, hates, and concerns have been silenced…

Welcome to their world of “dark chronicles of broken heart…”

Just before you pity them for what they are and decide to teach them how to be real, practical and less selfish…think again!!!

They are the chosen ones to bring life into this world, love flows in every drop of their blood, for most of them it’s “U” that comes first then “I”.

So what if with changing times their role seems to be reversed, as they have decided to step out and be there with you (men), for you, to match your steps, to prove to you, or to prove to themselves that they are special…

Women….perhaps the most lovable creations of God were and still are craving for love, protection, being provided for, and are seeking security.

Their feeling of insecurity is so strong that they are convinced that it is also objective truth.

A woman's great need is to fill up that emptiness. Sadly she thinks that a man will fill it, which is only partly true. However, the need is so great that she gets a man who cannot fill it. He cannot because he is also empty and is looking for a woman to fill his emptiness.

Two empty, insecure people marry each other to get their own needs met. It does not happen. Now the woman is even more insecure. She thinks that if she has a baby that will meet her need. Again that is partly true.

Women were made to have babies. However, babies are needy and demanding creatures.

An insecure woman now has greater demands on her than she is able to cope with, especially if there are multiple children. Now she is insecure and frazzled. She thinks she needs a nicer home with nicer furniture. This takes a lot of money. She has to work as good as her husband. Now she is tired, insecure and frazzled. Then it is clothes, music, parties and maybe a different man. Her husband is not romantic. He popped out early in the marriage because his needs were not being met…this is a description of a several women…craving for “Love” loud and clear!!!!

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  1. Nidhi PathakDecember 4, 2009 at 8:47 AM

    Hia,
    Women is always driven by ambition...
    an ambition to achieve success aon personel as wel as professional ground....

    Somehow i do enjoy this struggling sphere... it make me stronger and adds more spark of desire to achieve more and more love....

    Desire of love is always contented with anguish of betrayl ... which makes us more strong and contend and teaches to be happy with wat we get or rather teaches to find happiness in small things which we come across ind aily life....

    May you soon learn to find happiness in every small things you find in your life and which turn out to be something very important ....whch yu are waiting for...


    ;-)

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