I write because I feel!!

Posted on   14/02/2016   by   Dailyexcelsior Come to think of LOVE, and daring still is to make an attempt to even write about it at 30 plus! How and where to start from is the challenge, whether to start from a good morning greeting, a nice cup of hot tea on a cold and frosty morning, planning for the entire day on a breakfast table, afternoon whereabouts and lunch enquiries to a warm evening welcome, a stress free walk, watching the sun set slowly together, taking pictures for memories, endless talks just before you call it a day and hoping still for an even greater and adventurous next day! Sounds absolutely perfect for a good start but what happens in between is a far greater challenge that silently ’KILLS’ all the rituals one ever dreamt to perform for a perfect love life balance. A lot has already been written on what love is and what it is not, but can you ever know what love is or not? Well, for some it’s just so easy to fall in and rise above,...

And some cry in between... Have you found or hunting your way through or you thought that you almost got your “prince charming”, well what makes you believe that even when you would meet your “MR RIGHT” or “ MR PERFECT ”…..things would move on easily from then now, trust me it’s no hunky-dory and who says falling in love is easy, forgetting about the pains and torture involved in convincing the supposedly “other half” that you are more than sure and know about the “eternal connection” between the two of you, phew and after all that proving of your love, I would still want to know from those who believe that falling in love is easy?? Falling in love is certainly not easy and equally or rather even more painful is to come out of it…..and do you even want to imagine a state in between?? Scary is the thought, and worse is the phase when you don’t know whether you are in love or out of it…but then people around would ask you how you feel or even cliché to close your eyes and try to figur...

So do you know which generation you belong to, whether Gen X or Y or are you still in a fix?? This thought passed my mind while watching “Love Aaj Kal”. I always thought “Love” a few years ago was selfless and admirable and thought, if at all, I would fall in love, it would be of that era when love was not considered a “stupidity” and most importantly was not a “calculative affair”. Finding the “right guy” that “clicked”, whom one sees and the bells start ringing in ears is considered bogus these days. Reality hits me hard every day when people of both generations (X and Y) tell me that one has to be “real” and often tell me that “bells ringing” in this time and age is a bit too much to expect. People I know of Gen X think that its “childish” and “immature”, and feel that one has to change with time. My own peer group feels that to live in this era and then expect things of yester years is “unreal”. But why can’t we have best of both worlds? I asked this to a councellor aunt and...

Their desires, hates, and concerns have been silenced… Welcome to their world of “dark chronicles of broken heart…” Just before you pity them for what they are and decide to teach them how to be real, practical and less selfish…think again!!! They are the chosen ones to bring life into this world, love flows in every drop of their blood, for most of them it’s “U” that comes first then “I”. So what if with changing times their role seems to be reversed, as they have decided to step out and be there with you (men), for you, to match your steps, to prove to you, or to prove to themselves that they are special … Women….perhaps the most lovable creations of God were and still are craving for love, protection, being provided for, and are seeking security. Their feeling of insecurity is so strong that they are convinced that it is also objective truth. A woman's great need is to fill up that emptiness. Sadly she thinks that a man will fill it, which is only partly true. ...