I write because I feel!!

And some cry in between... Have you found or hunting your way through or you thought that you almost got your “prince charming”, well what makes you believe that even when you would meet your “MR RIGHT” or “ MR PERFECT ”…..things would move on easily from then now, trust me it’s no hunky-dory and who says falling in love is easy, forgetting about the pains and torture involved in convincing the supposedly “other half” that you are more than sure and know about the “eternal connection” between the two of you, phew and after all that proving of your love, I would still want to know from those who believe that falling in love is easy?? Falling in love is certainly not easy and equally or rather even more painful is to come out of it…..and do you even want to imagine a state in between?? Scary is the thought, and worse is the phase when you don’t know whether you are in love or out of it…but then people around would ask you how you feel or even cliché to close your eyes and try to figur...

“Uh-huh, life's like this, that's the way it is- COMPLICATED.” How many times can you fall in love with one person over and over again despite all odds and despite growing old apart? Well, many would agree and say that the “spark” despite separation, tears and hurt remains and grows only deeper with time, but it certainly is “complicated” to decide whether to be with someone or not to be with someone, especially once a separation “seal” put on a relationship seals it all. No doubt, it becomes rather difficult not to fall for the person, with whom you fell in love first and then got married later, perhaps even more difficult to be in “control of emotions” especially once the “flesh of your passion” (baby) is out and kicking. “It’s complicated” (movie 2009) is a story of Jane (Meryl Streep), who is a self-reliant divorce and owns a successful bakery in Santa Barbara, California. After ten years of separation and three grown children, she finally achieves a good relationship...

Calling up mom, especially when away from home, is so much fun and without failure, each time you call her up, you end up feeling so much "special”, being loved and cared for…Thank God life gets going when mama is on the roll!!! Today, when I called up mama in the morning to tell her that undoubtedly she is the Queen Of My Heart and wished her “Happy Women’s Day”…she first smiled (like she already read my mind) and then very softly asked me an “innocent” question…What do we do on Women's Day? I was quiet for a while, not knowing what exactly to say, but then some how collected myself and said: “We wish all the known and unknown women for being so special and just enjoy the spirit of the day”…and so fast I was done with the “seemingly easy question”, she smiled yet again as though giving me another chance to think? The conversation ended on the phone and now my mind started the “talking”. I started imagining (like I always do), a woman who believes she is good, a woman wh...