To love or leave…

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And some cry in between...
Have you found or hunting your way through or you thought that you almost got your “prince charming”, well what makes you believe that even when you would meet your “MR RIGHT” or “MR PERFECT”…..things would move on easily from then now, trust me it’s no hunky-dory and who says falling in love is easy, forgetting about the pains and torture involved in convincing the supposedly “other half” that you are more than sure and know about the “eternal connection” between the two of you, phew and after all that proving of your love, I would still want to know from those who believe that falling in love is easy??
Falling in love is certainly not easy and equally or rather even more painful is to come out of it…..and do you even want to imagine a state in between??
Scary is the thought, and worse is the phase when you don’t know whether you are in love or out of it…but then people around would ask you how you feel or even cliché to close your eyes and try to figure out, forgetting that with closed eyes you can only “dream”, and when you open your eyes again, the reality is sure to hit you hard and the world would come down crashing on you when you loose your mind and heart to think or even feel to either be there or to move on…
Complex is the movie and worse if not a fantasy, Noah Calhoun has recently returned from war: he tries to forget the horrors he has seen and experienced by restoring an old plantation home. But though his days are spent working, his nights too often give way to dreams of his past.
Fourteen years ago, Noah fell in Love with a girl, and he is still haunted by her memory, but convinced he will never find her again. But when the past slips into the present, Noah realises his ghosts are never far away. The film also had a profound affect on me regarding Noah and Allie and the difficulties they faced in old age.
So, is it easy to fall in love, not to let yourself fall in love, or then to put an end to all the confusion, is it too simple to just leave it there and move on…or simply decide with whom do you want to grow old loving, especially when you forget what love means to you…all in all a tragic romantic flick ever…


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